Every year, my whole family takes some time out to go on a holiday together. When I say “whole” family, I mean the ones who can make it at the time. Along with my gorgeous husband and two precious children, my “whole family” comprises of Mum, my uncle and aunt, brothers and sisters with partners, and nieces and nephews (the mathematical sum of which would have taken me way too long to work out!) Suffice to say, there were quite a few mouths to feed and an abundance of FUN to be had! You may be thinking, “what a big family!” Yes, I am extremely blessed and will never have to worry about being alone in the world! So the only math I really need to concern myself with is counting my blessings!
The family holiday idea started soon after my Dad passed away in the year 2000. This marked the end of a beautiful life, but the beginning of a very special family tradition in memory of a very special man. It was such a huge loss for all of us to have to let go of Dad and we didn’t know how we were going to deal with the overwhelming grief. One of my brothers-in-law came up with a fantastic idea for us to take a family holiday together. This family holiday was to bring our heart-broken Mum a touch of joy, and in helping us to honour our beautiful Dad’s memory, it became instrumental in healing our indescribable grief. Little did we know that 10 years later, the tradition would still be alive!
Our first year at Vacy was in September 2001, and every year at the same time, we have a running booking with the lovely owners of Banjos Bushland Retreat. The only year we didn’t go was in 2009 when my sister and I were having cancer treatment and were too sick – the rest of the family said it wouldn’t be the same without us, so they all cancelled for that year. I guess that’s why it made Vacy all the more special this year.
Banjos is comprised of three luxury 5 star lodges, games room and tennis court, and is set on 20 acres of private magical bushland. This 20 acres is set high on the mountaintop of a 1,000 acre reserve in a town called Vacy, about two hours from Sydney in the beautiful Hunter Valley.
To give you an idea of this enchanting setting, here is an aerial photograph from the Banjos website:
